These are from an email sent to me by my honey. Actually, it's a chain letter of sort, which, for some unknown reasons, is what she seems to be doing each time she's emailing someone. I dunno. Well, she has a lot of friends, kasi, that's why there are a lot of chain letters filing up her inbox. Hmmm, I'd like to think of it as her own way of sharing, even in the mail. :) . I know she'd be killing me, when she reads this. Hahahahahah! Anyway, I enjoyed reading the rest of the letter, so here it is.
Reminders On Love: For those Inlove and to Those Who Will Fall Inlove Someday
* Never ask a girl in the email or chat about your plan of courting her because they would rather think that you are not kinda serious and you are just "dilly-dally" than to think that you are a shy guy type. Even if you're shy or not, have the guts to ask her on the phone or inperson.
* Never try to change your loved one to suit your own taste. It defeats the purpose of falling in love with him/her for what he/she really is.
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Guys will forever be thinking of different girls the whole day. But it is who's in their hearts that they will be always thinking of every night before they sleep (hoping that they dream of her that night as they sleep too).
* After a fight and you stay up sad, can't sleep and thinking of your loved one, I guarantee that he/she is doing the same thing too.
* After being with each other for so long, never forget the little things that made you fall in love with him/her more.
*Loving someone isn't about seeing him/her as often as you can. It's about trusting each other that both of you love and yearn for one's company. The moment you start counting the number of times you call/see/spend time/talk with each other then chances are the one who is keeping tabs has the problem. Love is more than that.
* Too much jealousy can kill, but a little of it is healthy. Besides,
it's nice to know that your loved one fears losing you.
* It's pointless to be in a relationship if you can't see yourself spending the rest of your life with your bf/gf. True love is not a pastime.
* Never underestimate the value of holding hands. It was the first time you knew you love and are loved in return by the person you're with now. And it was the prelude to the kiss. "Let lips do what hands do : they kiss." (Romeo&Juliet)
* Look forward to spending time with your bf/gf. Time spent together should never be an obligation or part of a routine because this leads to taking the fun out of being with each other.
* Don't undervalue laughter. Just like the previous statement, fun is also a considerable aspect of a long-lasting relationship.
* Support each other. Motivate one another. Don't be insecure at the success of your loved one. Besides, you may not know it, but you play a vital role in inspiring him/her.
* Small random acts of sweetness have guaranteed tremendous effects.
* When you fight, what's the use of prolonging your agony? Don't let pride waste time that should be spent happy together.
* When having a serious fight and you ask yourself whether or not your relationship is worth rescuing and your answer is a "yes"; with conviction, then you must be right. But if deep inside, your answer is "I'm not really sure", you may not be aware of it, but it leans on the "no" answer.
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Say"I love you" because you mean it, and not because you have to. Don't hold back on saying it out of the blue too. Besides, you'll never get a negative reaction from doing so. And it will feel good for the both of you.
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Never take for granted the word "friend" in boyfriend and girlfriend. Do all the sweet, mushy stuff that couples do,but don't ever forget that your bf/gf is a friend too.
